When I first got involved in parish ministry, I was pretty excited. I had lots of ideas, and I would usually rush headlong into some new project without much planning. More importantly, I’d start creating new schemes without much help. I would ask for volunteers from the parish, but usually folks would tell me they were too busy. And when I did get the occasional volunteer, I spent so much time telling him or her what needed to be done — and then correcting mistakes — that I finally decided it was just easier and faster to do the work myself.
Soon, however, my excitement turned to discouragement. And overwhelm. And dread. I felt like that guy I saw on The Ed Sullivan Show when I was a kid. He was spinning a couple dozen plates on six-foot poles, and he had to run all over the stage to keep the plates spinning. I was running all over the parish trying to keep the plates I was spinning from crashing to the ground.
It took me a long, long time to learn an essential rule for parish ministry and team building: Stop spinning.